my first day in chastity hi there! i’m 24, soon 25, and happily bonded with my boyfriend for more than two years. when i finally took the chance and

hi there!

i’m 24, soon 25, and happily bonded with my boyfriend for more than two years.
when i finally took the chance and ordered a chastity belt last week, i was as excited as a little boy for christmas, and yesterday, i finally found it in the mailbox.
it’s a cb6000, and i loved it from the moment i unpacked the box.

wanted to try it on immediately, but i couldn’t get myself to cool off and relax, so i sat there with a bulging boner and didn’t know what to do. after 20 frustrating minutes with a hardon, i decided to just jack off, so i could get my dick into a flaxid state, but it didn’t seem to work. i came, but stayed half-hard and just too long&wide to get it into the tube.

i only managed to lock myself up after standing on cold floor with no clothes on, and it was still not easy to not be totally excited and aroused by the thought of a chastity belt on my dick.

after so much anticipation, i decided to leave it on overnight, and sleep on my belly to constantly feel the pressure. it was AWESOME!
this morning, i got into the shower and played around with it, and ended up fingering my asshole because i was so horny. i did take it off so i could jerk it a little, but put it back on (again, after some cooling-down-time) before anything could “happen”.
i was too scared to leave it on for work (who knows what might happen the first day), but somehow tricked myself into not getting too hard and put it back on as soon as i came home.

i put on the cb-6000, and added two of the unused rings and a hairband to add more tension. lovely.
this is what it looks like when i’m so hot that my dong still wants to pump up and elongate:

now, i’m sitting here, wondering if i should dig out that little vibrator i have in a box in the bedroom.

this is the horniest thing that has happened to me.
can’t wait to surprise the boyfriend with a request to fuck me until he can’t anymore.

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not sure if anybody reads this. if you do, and you like it, then please let me know, and i will try to post more.

Study: monogamous marriage devastates your sex life

If you don’t have sex before marriage, then making your relationship legal will definitely improve your sex life, at least for a few years, and assuming you’re sexually compatible. Otherwise putting that wedding ring on is pretty much like strapping on a metal chastity belt. One recent British poll discovered that unwed couples had sex an average of four times a week; after three years of marriage, couple were lucky to have sex once a week. If that isn’t enough to make you seriously consider returning that engagement ring, here are some more fun facts from the independent survey:

-60% of married people believe marriage destroyed their sex lives.

-50% see their partner more as a friend than a lover.

-Nearly 60% said their sex life has suffered since marriage because they no longer make an effort.

-33% are no longer attracted to their partner like they were in the early phases of their relationship.

-43% said their partner has let themselves go.

-80% always have sex at the same time, in the same position, and in the same place.

-Nearly 80% prefer a good night’s sleep to making the effort to have unplanned sex at night.

-Two thirds of those who admitted to extramarital affairs claimed the sex was amazing.

-One fifth who haven’t cheated said they would if they had the opportunity and their relationship doesn’t improve.

-One fifth claimed they would “understand” if their partner confessed to cheating.

-25% admitted to having a one night stand to satisfy their need for good sex.

-14% have had a full blown affair.

-Two thirds blame their busy lives for their awful sex lives.

-80% are too tired for sex when the day is over.

-70% claimed they might have sex more if their partner made more of an effort.

Before you put a bullet in your six shooter and start spinning the cylinder, consider this: although this survey polled 3,000 British citizens, it was conducted by a dating site for extramarital affairs called lovinglinks.co.uk.. This is a bit like Scientologists publishing a survey on the stress and happiness levels of the general population.

Still, it’s no secret that most married couples struggle with unsatisfying sex lives. However, I would suggest that it’s not the fault of marriage so much as a natural consequence of a long term relationship. Committed gay couples who aren’t legally bound experience the same sexual slump. So what’s the problem? It may be hard to narrow down on one specific reason, but let’s just say it’s difficult to maintain excitement in your sex life when you know exactly what your partner will say to reject you when you move to unsnap her bra in the middle of the night.

William Jones Chastity Belt ~ Male ~ (Brampton) $800

Up for sale is my worn once William Jones Chastity Belt.
I bought the belt from William Jones Chastity Belt's in January. I ordered the belt to come complete with she male belt (sits lower on your waist), curved waist band, the secondary shield, and also a 4" x 1" butt plug (never worn), and also the 6" X 2" Dildo attachment(never worn).

There really wasn't any option that wasn't ordered with the belt. it was expensive, my total bill with shipping was in the area of $1100.00 USD.

None the less, I would be interested in selling the belt as interest and Mistress has been since lost. The belt was worn "literally" once.

I know getting what I paid for the belt would be very nice, but I also understand that this is a little to good to be true. I'm open to offers.

Please see the photo's I have attached. If you have any questions please feel free to contact me.

Obscure Patents: Chastity Belts for Dogs

Perhaps I am missing something, but I do not see a huge market for animal chastity belts. We have a dog, and we are dog lovers. We enjoy walking through pet stores and spoil her rotten. I cannot say that I have seen an animal chastity belt in any of my trips to any pet store. Maybe there is an underground market for these devices, and maybe the inventors get rich and are laughing all the way to the bank. Nevertheless, I must observe that it seems extremely likely that the inventors of these and many other similar devices are failing to ask the all important and critical question — is there a market for your invention and can you make money? In the case where there is a crowded field, and believe it or not animal chastity belts would qualify as a crowded field, it is essential for inventors to ask themselves (and to be honest with themselves) with respect to whether their innovation presents advantages significant enough over what is available in the prior art and those products already on the market. It might be that your invention works, but that no one would be interested in buying it.

In any event, and without further ado, here are a couple chastity belts for dog lovers who just cannot bring themselves to have their pet spayed or neutered.

Unisex protective garment for dogs
US Patent No. 7,044,087
Issued May 16, 2006

This invention is yet another version of a chastity belt for a dog, and yes there are lots of them. This version, however, is capable of being used by both male and female dogs. The patent explains that the woven mesh on the under belly and the in the hind quarters region allow for the animal to be able to urinate and defecate, but would not allow for the dogs to have relations that would lead to unwanted pregnancies. I don’t know about you, but I think it would be easier to get the dog fixed if you are not interested in puppies. I also don’t even want to think about washing the garment several times a day for the life of the dog. Beware cheap imitations that do not come equipped with at least some kind of openings that allow urine and fecal matter to pass through.

In any event, the problem trying to be solved by this invention is best defined in the Background of the Invention, which states:

There are millions of dog owners who raise their dogs either in the confines of an interior space such as apartment or a house, or with an enclosed yard. Of course, when the dog is maintained indoors, it is necessary that the dog be allowed to relieve itself exterior to the home or apartment on a regular basis. One of the concerns in this endeavor is the fact that dogs go through a period of being in heat which attracts members of the opposite sex, which may result in unwanted and undesired pregnancy of the dog.

Therefore, there is a need for allowing a dog, whether it be male or female, to be allowed to relieve itself outdoors yet not be susceptible to being impregnated in the case of a female or having the ability to impregnate a female, in the case of a male, when the female is in heat. Also, there is a need for a garment that could be worn by a dog when the dog is undergoing menstruation so that there could be a protective pad placed on the dog so as to avoid the flow from making contact with carpet or furniture, which would cause an unwanted stain or blemish on the item.

Adjustable harness and animal birth control device
US Patent No. 6,647,928
Issued November 18, 2003

What can be said about this invention? The pictures say it all. This one appears to be a rather traditional chastity belt for your pet, and seems to be appropriate for use only by female dogs. The Background of this invention goes into great depths explaining the number of dogs in the U.S. and how population control is extremely important. The patent also explains that some owners are not comfortable with spaying or neutering due to the negative pshycological impact it might have on the animal. In any event, this invention seeks to improve upon other known devices so as to make it possible for the dog to run around and play, yet still not get pregnant. As with the invention above I have to wonder about cleaning this device. The patent explains that it is an improvement over other devices because of its design, ease of use and ability to be cleaned without leading to the laundry list of diseases that are mentioned as being transmittable from dog to human. I could have lived my whole live without having read that list!

Are burlesque shows bringing sexy back?

At some point during the latter part of the 20th century, the term burlesque became somewhat synonymous with the type of striptease act featuring seductive dancers wearing pasties that Don Draper would take one of his out-of-town clients to see in an episode of "Mad Men."

While this connotation isn't completely wrong — sexy striptease does indeed play a role in the show — Sabrina Chap of modern burlesque act The Schlapentickle Family is hoping to educate audiences one show at a time about the true spirit of the genre that exactly 100 years ago was a mainstay of vaudeville. The troupe makes its Cleveland debut tonight at the Beachland Ballroom.

"I think burlesque means to make fun of something," said Chap, a singer-songwriter, calling from her Brooklyn, N.Y., home. "In the very early days, they were having burlesque shows and it would not be striptease. There was a story line where you slowly revealed yourself in a sexy and funny way. And the body was more than a body, it was a character that was showing itself and stripping."

The Schlapentickle Family is part of a modern burlesque scene that includes the Suicide Girls, BurlesQuepade and Marilyn Manson's ex-wife Dita Von Teese. The movement began in the '90s on the coasts and has since slowly crept to the Midwest. Chap's involvement began when she tired of touring as a solo artist. After enjoying the wildness of the burlesque circuit, she decided to form her own troupe featuring sideshow acts, performance art and live music. The current Schlapentickle Family lineup includes Chap, Miss Pussykatt, Marla Meringue, Paco Fish and Scarlett Let-Her.

"America's Got Talent" viewers will recognize Miss Pussykatt and her spark-inducing electrical grinder act. However, as you'll find out, her talents — as with other Schlapentickle Family performers — go beyond just grinding away at her metal chastity belt.

"Miss Pussykatt does basic stuff like nailing things up her nose or swallowing balloons and walking on glass," Chap said. "We also have Paco, who does boy-lesque. His style is really hilarious, a little bit twisted. There's always something hidden with him. You're never sure when he starts stripping what is the core of his character. Like there's this very, very, very dirty businessman character he does, and at the very end of the act he has this big hand that sticks out of his crotch and he asks people in the audience to shake his hand."

She continued, "There are different types of burlesque performers. Marla Merengue does really sort of twisted burlesque. She's 21, really sexy but also her stripteases are a bit demented. Like she does one where she forces people to be dominated by oranges. She takes volunteers from the audience and sees how far she can push them in terms of doing what she wants using oranges. It's weird. So there's a little bit of theater in there as well. She does straight burlesque where she strips but there's little vaudevillian moments of just sort of creating an atmosphere of sexiness and bizarreness and definite entertainment."

In some ways the burlesque show is similar to that of an R-rated movie minus the full-frontal nudity. In fact, Chap admits The Schlapentickle Family plays up the misconception that their show is nothing more than a striptease act.

"Yeah, some people think that, but I don't mind them," Chap said. "I don't care. I'm not saying we're the most intellectual thing. Basically, this entire show is about very base entertainment. It's fine if people think it's a (expletive) show. It's not completely — there are breasts in it and the furthest we go down to is pasties. We do the infamous Carmina Boob-rana sketch, which is probably my favorite part of the show, where we all just grab our breasts in our hands to the tune of ‘Carmina Burana' with flashlights attached to our head and move our breasts up and down. It's hilarious. It's sexy but also just ridiculous. And everyone laughs their (expletives) off."

One person sold on the movement is Beachland Ballroom Public Relations Director Katherine Isenhart, who over the past few years has increasingly booked more burlesque acts into the venue on Cleveland's East Side.

"We like it. It's different and kind of kitschy," Isenhart said. "It's titillating in a nice way and charming. They're doing burlesque, but they're attracted to a younger audience. I wasn't sure what to expect when we started doing them, but it's a pretty normal crowd. I was really surprised. There are a lot of couples that come into the burlesque shows. It's really cool, and they have a great time. It's like not triple-X porn or anything like that. It's just fun."

Details

Who: The Schlapentickle Family Burlesque and Revue with Pinch & Squeal and Bella Sin.

When: 9 tonight.

Where: Beachland Ballroom, 15711 Waterloo Road, Cleveland.

Tickets: $10.

Info: 216-383-1124 or visit www.beachlandballroom.com.

A Steel Chastity Belt 24/7 – John’s New Life

Just to clear up some­thing which I thought was pretty obvi­ous: yes, John is in a steel chastity belt 24/7 and I have the keys.

I’m not sure what in my last post led any­one to con­clude it was oth­er­wise, but that’s how it is (actu­ally, I tend to assume every­one is on the same page, so to speak, but I should be more aware and for­giv­ing of the fact that many of my read­ers are new every day – which is why they should read the bloody FAQ before bug­ging me!).

Any­way… back to 24/7.

Well, it’s almost 24/7 because, as I said, on days he goes out on his bike I unlock him for the dur­a­tion and then either lock him when he returns or he takes it in the shower for a clean and then we put it on when he gets out. It also seems to come off rather a lot at night because I like to tease him. Iron­ic­ally, hav­ing him locked up in a steel chastity belt makes me want him even more.

Which reminds me… I admit, I’m a little sur­prised at the response to yesterday’s news­let­ter and the now infam­ous teas­ing ses­sion I described.

I know I’ve vacil­lated about writ­ing about the pruri­ent details, but I finally got round to it and put it in the News­let­ter. I don’t have any par­tic­u­lar objec­tion to writ­ing about it… it’s just that I don’t think it’s really con­gru­ent with the rest of the mes­sage I want the Blog to convey.

So the News­let­ter is the per­fect place for it.

And it seems like I made the right call because I’ve been inund­ated with emails ask­ing for more updates like that, beg­ging me to write fic­tion (yes, it’s com­ing) and more than a few telling me they wished their wives and girl­friends would treat them the same way.

Yes, John is a lucky man; but then, I feel I’m a lucky lady, too.

I even had one chap offer to come and live with us as my slave – being abso­lutely clear about the fact he wants noth­ing more than to be locked up in a steel chastity belt like John’s and treated badly – no sex, no romance, no teasing.

Oh my.

I don’t have the heart to be mad at him, because he was so polite and such a sweet man. But I’ll still pass on that one even though I’d bet a pound for a penny John would just laugh and tell me to get on with it if I wanted to do that.

Another fel­low, much, much younger this time, thinks I should open a place for weekend-retreats, as I’ve writ­ten before.

Now that I really have thought about and it’s per­haps some­thing for the future, say in the 2 to 5 year times­cale. It’s cer­tainly not some­thing I’ll be doing in the imme­di­ate future, but I’d not rule it out. If I did it, I’d want to make it per­fect –a steel chastity belt included with the pro­gramme fees?

I don’t know… because that then that adds com­plex­it­ies all of its own, so there’s a lot to think about to make it right.

For a start, there would have to be someone cap­able of mak­ing the afore­men­tioned steel chastity belt and then some arrange­ment for fit­ting and accli­mat­isa­tion before they arrived.

Because they’d leave locked and their wives would have the keys.

And then would a week­end be long enough?

Prob­ably not. Per­haps a week or more, like a boot-camp. Maybe some­thing like the OWK only a bit saner and less fanciful.

I do know it’ll be very exclus­ive, reas­sur­ingly expens­ive and only for ser­i­ous men and women with com­mit­ment, stam­ina and deep, deep pockets.

I must admit, it’s all a lot of fun to think about and John and I have talked about it a lot… you know, those long almost whim­sical talks you have after wine and love­mak­ing, when everything seems pos­sible? (Oh… and the moon­light glint­ing off John’s steel chastity belt as we lie cuddled up with the hot waves of my orgasm still cours­ing through me… sublime…)

But in reality?

I don’t know. One thing that does put me off is I can’t help but feel some of the men might start to think they are in some kind of “rela­tion­ship” with me.

This is one reason I don’t engage much with men who email me, and it’s prob­ably the main thing that stops me from offer­ing any kind of key­hold­ing service.

If I did, it would have to be one with ongo­ing sup­port, com­mu­nic­a­tion and coach­ing. Even though from my end it would be purely busi­ness, I think with the best will in the world the fel­low on the other end is must needs going to become emo­tion­ally involved with the whole thing. I think it would be almost impossible to be locked up in a steel chastity belt and not become emo­tion­ally attached in some way to the per­son hold­ing the keys.

And shit like that in my life I can well do without.

For the Retreats, this wouldn’t be a prob­lem because I wouldn’t allow single men – it’d be couples only and it would involve both of them.

Obvi­ously for key­hold­ing only single men would be inter­ested so there would be no point in hav­ing the same rule (on the con­trary, even though it’s pos­sible there are mar­ried men out there who want or need an extra-marital key­holder, that’d poten­tially be even more shit in my life I can well do without).

I con­fess… the thought of being Lady of the Manor, so to speak, would be rather nice. It would be most pleas­ing to have couples com­ing in at the begin­ning of the week or month and leav­ing with the man locked in a steel chastity belt, trained and under his wife’s thumb. Lord knows what they’d see in hav­ing a man like that, but from my per­spect­ive the pro­cess of help­ing them get what they wanted would be extremely satisfying.

Hell, a woman can dream, can’t she?

Which reminds me, brings me to a con­veni­ent point to stop (ironic turn of phrase) and also closes an open loop from fur­ther up the page: fic­tion and pruri­ent details of John’s teas­ing and, for want of a bet­ter word “ser­vice” now he’s in that there cold and uncom­prom­ising steel chastity belt 24/7 until Christmas.

Encour­aged by the responses, I’ll write more of that mucky stuff in the News­let­ter. Per­haps not every week, but enough to keep you quiv­er­ing and leak­ing, I’m sure.

And… I’ve finally thought of a way to make back-issues avail­able without put­ting them on the web­site proper and the details of how to get those I’ll share in the News­let­ter also.

And… the fic­tion. I’ll actu­ally leave you guess­ing with that. The first one will be com­ing out at the same time as the new Guide and will kill two birds with one stone.

See if you can fig­ure it out. Send me your answers and if you get it right, I’ll make sure you get the first story before any­one else does.

And now? Well, I’m aware I’m bab­bling a bit. Hungry, horny and tired.

It’s Sat­urday even­ing – so it’s chip shop, wine, DVD and then a good seeing-to for me!

5 Things To Do: Chastity belts art, peep show, know your South Tacoma Way, Fuzion ...

1. Mineral gallery (Suite A) celebrates the opening of its Access Denied: the Second Annual Exhibit of Chastity Belts by Artists from 11 a.m. to 5 p.m. Next door to Mineral at 301 Puyallup Avenue (Suite B) be sure to peek at Don't Look, a boudoir vignette by Madera Architectural Elements members. AND next to both in Suite C are watercolors by Val Persoon. We wrote something awkward on these shows here.

2. Meet South Tacoma book author Darlyne Reiter, Chat with railroad historian Jim Fredrickson about Northern Pacific Railway and the South Tacoma Shops, walk through the business district with architectural historian Gerald Eysaman, tour historic Oakwood Hill Cemetery and Columbarium with Bill Habermann, view a trove of stained glass and learn about South Park Historic District from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. beginning at Northwest Motor Scooters.

3. The Red Hot celebrates its third birthday with an outdoor beer garden, giveaways and good times from 1-11 p.m.

4. MovinN 92.5 FM invades SAX Restaurant's "Fuzion" dance party night giving the Fuzion Girls a little more to shake at beginning at 9 p.m.

5. Don't you miss the '90s? The local stars of that decade are now coming back with a vengence and The Speans are a prime example. The band joins C.F.A. and Basemint for a benefit show for Music and Art in Wright Park at 9 p.m. inside The New Frontier Lounge. Read up on the show here.